A person very dear to me said, “I just cannot do this. I simply can not do it!” Yes, you can.
I admit, I was well into the middle part of my 40’s before I realized that all things are possible.
Self-doubt is very defeating. Dreams can be squashed by a little voice that whispers, “You might not be able to do this.” Self-doubt causes us to shun our aspirations, our hopes, and our plans. Self-doubt causes us to not make corrections in our lives that frees us to move forward. We vigorously ignore and take detours because it appears much easier than facing a challenge.
So sad. Such a waste of time and energy.
To the one that is struggling…call them brick walls, stumbling blocks, hurdles, whatever the term for challenges might be for you…if you never test the waters, if you never jump through the ring of fire (the vision that I use), you will likely not get where you want to be in life. As grandmother used to say, “Nobody is going to hand that to you on a silver platter.” You have to make it happen.
It is a fact, the more you accomplish, the stronger you get. Stronger = more faith in yourself.
I hope to not listen to the self-doubt voice ever again…but I am sure it will whisper something in my ear again soon. I love the challenge, because it reminds me that I am human, and that I am weak. But I also love it because it reminds me that I can freely do whatever good I know I can do!
“Let’s check and see if I’m going
ahead
or backward,
or nowhere . . . .
-Gladis and Gordon DePress
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Beautiful picture!!!
I agree with you. But for several years now, I have been taking one step forward and three steps back. It is nerve wracking to try so hard and not get anywhere. But atleast I’m still trying!!!
I think a lot of us mistrust our abilities because of our upbringing. When you have parents that tell you you can do anything… you try. When you have the other variety, you hide.
I’m almost 51 years and still having the conversation with myself about not being afraid to take chances because what if I fail?
The lessons that have been engraved on us from birth can be difficult to unengrave. But you are correct… what’s the harm in trying.
Wonderful thought provoking post. Love you Mary!
Lovely picture and I have been there, done that especially when my Grandma was staying with us, she thought she could do things that she used to be able to do but she can’t anymore though!
Becky, I slide back, feelings wash over, as if I am defeated, but I recognize it quickly and shut it off. I know it is a struggle. It can be, and always will be.
Alix, I was raised with a lot of criticism. I can relate to that statement. Something can, and does click in. Either we do this for ourselves, or we don’t. I choose to do what is right on my life. You seem to have done the same. The past is just that.
Thank you for your input, Amy.
I am far from being an expert. I enjoy, and feel compassionate about sharing what I have encountered on my walk in life.
Faith gets me through a lot. That is my #1 trust, and then, next in line, I make sure I trust myself.
ugh… i’m thinking of the defeat of the math class. lol oh… maybe one day i’ll decide to take it by the horns… but we must also learn to pick our battles… and i’m not in the mood to fight right now. how’s that for an excuse? lol
but, you’re right. we can do anything we set our minds to do.
have a wonderful weekend!!!
Lynnanne, I think you have done enough for one week! LOL!!!
By the way, regarding the photo. I like it too. I took it while sitting at the computer this morning. It is the view from one of my office windows.
I am so excited to have found your site. We have had 2 pygmy does for awhile. One just gave birth to twins from a Nubian buck. I look forward to reading your blog.
I’m one of the lucky ones with parents who always told me I could accomplish whatever I set my mind to. The world didn’t “owe” me anything, but I could work for things.
Joanna, after I left the comments about my parents I felt rather guilty. They did the best they knew how and I hoped to have not come across as complaining about them. I honor each of my parents in my own way. They are both deceased.
You were one of the lucky ones…I strongly believe children need to be encouraged. Children need to learn that they are capable of making things happen. Many do not have to grow up these days…they are carried by their parents late into adulthood. Responsibility on the children’s part brings forward self-confidence. That is my take, right or wrong.
KentuckyFarmGirl, hope you do come back and enjoy the blog. Thank you.
seeing your photo makes me curious; how many acres do your goats have to play on?
They run on 6 acres, Lynnanne.
I couldn’t agree more… that little whisper… how loud it can be! To not listen and move on … that is the trick isn’t it! Hard as it can be!!
Wow, I think I need to save this one & go back to read it whenever I’m feeling discouraged.
Sandy and Stacey, I am far from being an expert of any of this stuff. I write when I feel passionate and moved. I share thoughts and ideas. I agree, Sandy, to ignore that little voice and move on…it moves mountains!